My grandfather will not make it.
Added 2022-03-15 21:55:05 +0000 UTCMy grandfather will not make it. As of today, it has been a week since he was admitted to the hospital, and today we received news that he’s not going to get through this. He’ll survive a few more days at most.
I thought it was likely that he might not make it, but I was really holding on to hope that he would get through this. I was thinking that he was really strong, and maybe he would pull through somehow. I was trying to go through everything with the idea that he was just staying in the hospital for a bit and that he would be leaving it soon.
He has been a big part of my life. He will be greatly missed. When I was young, he was always happy to spend time with me while I was a kid. He played a big role in the person I turned into. He has had Alzheimer’s for the past year, and so lately he hasn’t recognized me. I thought I was more prepared for him passing away than this. Mentally, he hasn’t been fully present for a long time, so I thought it wouldn’t hurt as much when he finally went.
It really hurts. I was wrong. I’m sorry. I can’t think straight right now. I’ll see everyone in April or something when I can think again.
Comments
As someone who was really close to their grandparents before they passed I feel you pain. Take all the time you need and take time in the future as well. Everyone grieves differently for me I was sad at the funeral and then was fine for about a month after. All of a sudden I had thought about my grandma and it wrecked me for the better part of a week.
Lictor Magnus
2022-03-17 18:56:07 +0000 UTCI'm sorry to hear that. Take your time to be with family.
Callum Rhodes
2022-03-16 09:54:34 +0000 UTCWhen i saw my grandfather the last time in the hospital... i really feel you. My grandparents where an essential part of when i grow up, parting with them was terrible.
D
2022-03-16 02:37:41 +0000 UTCI know the feeling; I just recently lost mine as well.
Osamaru Ta
2022-03-16 00:52:57 +0000 UTCAnyone who demands or thinks you should write during this is a failure of a human being. Take all the time you need to grieve.
White Neko Knight
2022-03-15 23:49:53 +0000 UTCMy condolences losing someone close is always painful so give yourself whatever time you need.
Will C
2022-03-15 22:50:27 +0000 UTCSo sorry to hear that. Take your time, we'll be here when you get back.
Timothy Alexander
2022-03-15 22:30:43 +0000 UTCTake all the time you need, I'm sorry you're going through this
Callum
2022-03-15 21:58:40 +0000 UTCMy Condolenses
Alteron
2022-03-15 21:57:09 +0000 UTC
