[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about family of origin therapy.
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00:00 PiS in public
01:56 How do you achieve secure attachment despite internal resistance?
08:28 What about needing therapy makes Bob sad?
10:32 Why may psychological echoes occur when starting therapy?
16:03 What constitutes childhood sexual exploration vs. abuse?
34:42 'R', 'Sydney', 'Carl' OPP
39:25 H...
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about Internal Family Systems.
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Bob talks about his mom’s death and his grief
00:00 His mom's decline
03:51 Do Bob's siblings validate his experience?
11:04 How does Bob feel about her passing?
23:33 Did Bob's parents ever apologize?
39:05 Bob's anticipatory grief
43:02 Dr. Kirk's book is done!
48:42 Am I experiencing empathy or shame?
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Dr Kirk Honda reacts to the viral TikTok series “I Fell In Love With My Psychiatrist”.
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[Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda talks about the Amanda Knox case, the social forces present, and the research regarding false confessions.
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2025-08-28 11:00:08 +0000 UTC
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Dr Kirk and Humberto debate the trolley problem dilemmas.
00:00 Future deep dives
01:06 Clarifying questions of the trolley problem
03:51 Would Humberto pull the lever in a classic scenario?
11:58 Would pushing someone change the equation?
16:37 Where do you draw the line?
19:57 What if there was a child on the track?
28:35 Woul...
2025-08-27 11:00:04 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Humberto talk about the psychology of Roseanne Barr.
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Dr Kirk and Humberto respond to patron emails.
00:00 PETA acknowledgement
05:15 What bass does Berto own?
07:13 What is the feline situation at PIS?
10:34 What is the line between good friends and emotional cheating?
21:37 Should I hold onto guilt as the other woman?
28:24 What music should be on your birthing playlist?
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2025-08-25 11:00:05 +0000 UTC View Post
Rebeccasode! Answering patron emails.
00:00 Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder and comorbidities
05:22 Atsuko Okatsuka & Asian-American comedians
12:57 How would you define Jungian Shadow work?
25:00 Can you experience countertransference in academics?
30:40 Why is it so hard to find a good therapist?
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about the psychoanalytic concept called psychic retreats.
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Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto read follow-up emails to the deep dive on the Menendez Bros.
00:00 What might life be like for the Menendez Brothers post prison?
26:00 Could generational abuse have affected the brutality?
35:03 Dramatization of the story & other details
44:40 Self-rehabilitation work in prison
46:51 Final words
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2025-08-20 11:00:14 +0000 UTC
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2025-08-19 14:00:14 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda replies to a patron email about projective identification.
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Rebeccasode! Answering patron emails.
00:00 How does trauma affect a population?
13:02 Could Rebecca have been socialized to have a different opinion?
18:49 How do clinicians process trauma?
30:19 Strom Thurmond's daughter
33:52 Can a marginalized person have awful opinions?
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(I just had to tell someone.)
After 11 years of writing, researching, thinking, listening, experiencing, learning how to actually write, thinking more, crying... I finally finished writing my book on grief.
I'm now sending the final draft to a few editors, including Bob. So, I still have more work to do. But 99% of the work is done.
For me, writing requires allocating severa...
2025-08-15 20:22:56 +0000 UTC View Post
Humberto provides a deep dive on US immigration.
00:00 Visa Para Un Sueño
08:35 Immigration in Colombia
21:24 What would it take to leave Seattle?
23:23 Is it irrational to consider leaving?
29:40 What is within our power to control?
1:00:51 What does forming a plan look like?
1:32:13 When do you enact the plan?
1:47:17 Should...
2025-08-15 11:00:06 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Carey Burbank talk about the psychology of Marlon Brando
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Humberto provides a deep dive on US immigration.
00:00 Immigration Song
04:39 A Nationalist movement
07:30 Humberto's story of immigration
10:49 Federal measures & rollbacks
16:04 Federal funding & detainment centers
23:31 The Alien Enemies Act
27:26 Birthright citizenship
33:22 Stories from immig...
2025-08-13 11:00:08 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda answers a patron email about conversion disorder.
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Humberto provides a deep dive on US immigration.
00:00 Immigration to the Americas
15:16 Socio-political structures in the Americas
32:23 How has immigration developed in the US?
57:07 The Rio Grande and Christopher Columbus sucks
1:02:28 Why did so many people immigrate to the US?
1:10:36 Immigration policy after 9/11
1:12:23 Is there...
2025-08-11 11:00:06 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk answers patron emails.
00:00 How do you know what OCD you tend towards?
04:03 Why was OCD removed from the anxiety section of the DSM-V?
10:19 'L' OPP
13:06 Managing erotic countertransference
22:41 'N' OPP
23:42 What is the 'insanity defense'?
33:24 Does substance abuse affect codependency?
37:28 Movie & TV reviews
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about the connection between mental illness and violence.
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Rebeccasode! We review Queer Love Season 2.
00:00 Did Rebecca like S2?
07:49 Would a different host be better?
14:52 Defining sex & setting boundaries
23:33 Who would Rebecca be friends with in the cast?
58:12 Sex positive podcast recommendation
1:00:03 Final thoughts
1:09:15 What is compursion?
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk talks about tips for a good life.
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Dr Kirk answers patron emails.
00:00 Did this therapist break client confidentiality and trust?
10:22 Is it ethical to acknowledge a client's death?
21:31 Should I report a would-be pilot's mental health?
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Dr Kirk answers patron emails.
00:00 Are plateaus in life normal?
09:49 Finding true north
14:28 The history of PIS
51:09 Has Dr. Kirk's approach to podcasting changed?
57:35 Have the cohosts changed?
1:08:53 Is there any advice to consider when listening to old episodes?
1:10:37 Have other patrons listened th...
2025-08-01 11:00:10 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about misophonia.
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Dr Kirk Honda provides a lecture on weaponized incompetence.
00:00 When did the term come around?
07:27 Is there a gendered double standard?
09:39 What does the internet define as weaponized incompetence?
25:59 Dr. Kirk's definition
42:00 What context influences weaponized incompetence?
56:12 What isn't weaponized incompetence?
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Lisa Erickson about gifted children.
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