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The Psychology of Elizabeth Holmes (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Is Elizabeth Holmes a psychopathic CEO? Or was it society? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto answer these questions and more.


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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Thirteen: Follow-Up, part 1)

Chapter Thirteen of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness. 


00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Thirteen: Follow-Up, part 1)

00:25 Acceptance vs. forgiveness

05:30 Incest-like fantasies & shame

20:06 Acceptance with a clause

25:24 Forgiveness in Christianity

37:09 CBT skills in communication

42:23 Parental apologies &...

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Rebecca with the photo we talked about in today's episode

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Recording Rebecca's trauma (see today's episode)

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Rebecca's Trauma

Rebecca tells us about her traumas while lying on the floor. 

00:00 Introduction

06:35 Rebecca's caveat

10:42 Current nightmares

26:20 Grooming

46:57 Sharing the story

51:25 Children on social media,

54:29 How the trauma presents day to day

1:01:21 Treatment summary & art

1:11:55 Lasting impact of trauma & parenting

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The Psychology of House of the Dragon

Dr Kirk and Humberto discuss House of the Dragon, season one.


00:00 The Psychology of House of the Dragon

00:50 GoT, HotD, & our ratings 

02:29 Audience criticisms 

22:04 Psychology of King Viserys & Eddard's folly

42:16 Incest & history

1:07:51 Good guys vs. bad guys 

1:16:56 Overall likes & dislikes


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Which Psychology Degree Should You Get? (2020 rerun)

[Rerun] Given all the misinformation on the internet, choosing the right degree can be nearly impossible. Dr. Kirk Honda provides a guide to choosing the right degree for you.


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The Psychology of Elliot Rodger (2014 Rerun)

[Rerun] Kirk provides an analysis of the psychology of Elliot Rodger, the UCSB mass killer.


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Least Favorite Clients and Bob Kissing a Coworker

Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. 


00:00 Least Favorite Clients and Bob Kissing a Coworker

00:06 Our favorite clients 

18:56 Therapists wearing wedding rings

25:10 OPP

26:57 Therapists filing for bankruptcy

32:49 Session preparation 

38:18 Suicidal clients

56:38 Attachment style interpretation

58:49 Trauma trigg...

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The Last Privileged Generation

Dr Kirk and Humberto answer listener questions.


00:00 The Last Privileged Generation

01:01 Favorite movie soundtracks

07:07 What song would Dr. Kirk & Humberto slow dance to

07:57 Death Note 

08:21 What is Humberto's job

08:43 Personal style

10:30 What Dr. Kirk & Humberto would like to improve at

12:34 Severance

14:09...

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Therapist Superpowers and Other Things

Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. 


00:00 Therapist Superpowers and Other Things

00:31 Bob's therapist superpowers

31:31 OPP

34:06 Delusions

36:28 Familial attachment styles

39:34 Bored with therapy

48:05 Deciding to study psychology

1:01:25 Letting things go

1:06:01 False memory OCD

1:07:37 Intake questions & yo...

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Unbelievable (Netflix) Exposes Our Broken System (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Our legal system and society are broken and rape victims continue to be disbelieved, mistreated, and stigmatized. We review the new Netflix show Unbelievable. We also talk with Christy Forrester about her rape experience, her struggle with the legal system, and her path to advocacy and becoming a therapist. 


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A Therapist Has Sex With His Client (2016 Rerun)

[rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Rebecca Bloom about a listener who had sex with her therapist.


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I Have Antisocial Personality

Dr. Kirk reacts to a video on the Special Books by Special Kids channel in which Joseph discusses his diagnosis of antisocial personality disorder


00:00 I Have Antisocial Personality - (Therapist Reacts)

00:38 Antisocial/psychopathy myths

17:12 Reciprocity & empathy

28:05 Right vs. wrong & trauma

40:09 Support, resentment, & lying

49:25...

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The Abuse of Amouranth

TRIGGER WARNING: this episode has footage of extreme verbal abuse. Dr Kirk reacts to a video that Amouranth posted depicting her allegedly abusive husband. 


00:00 Introduction to Amouranth

00:32 Conceptualizing

09:12 Distorting reality, escalation, & melting down

16:19 Gaslighting, abuse, & regression

27:45 Exerting power & control

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Kanye and the Meaning of Art

Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron questions. 


00:00 Kanye and the Meaning of Art

00:23 Kanye's antisemitism & mania

12:20 Clocked in Coeur d'Alene

18:22 OPP

20:00 Birth control & mental health

26:56 Vagus nerve reactions

29:54 PTSD in the workplace

38:43 Parking in Seattle

41:20 Panic vs. anxiety attacks

48:20 T...

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Are Humans Monogamous? (2020 Rerun)

[Rerun] Are humans naturally monogamous? What about other primates? What does the data tells us? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto discuss the science and the culture.


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Attachment to your sexual abuser (2017 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Humberto about a listener who feels attached to her sexual abuser.


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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Twelve: Your Questions, part 5)

Chapter Twelve of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.


00:22 Dr. Kirk apologizes for the episode on adult ADHD

06:05 Dr. Kirk apologizes for harming the listener (Colt & Larissa)

26:48 Victims apologizing to abusers

30:27 Establishing nonintentiality

38:53 Finding a good therapist

39:50 Non-apology

40:18 Clearing...

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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Eleven: Your Questions, part 4)

Chapter Eleven of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness. 

00:05 Listener exercise

01:55 Dr Kirk apologizes for Amber Heard

15:58 Dr Kirk apologizes for A Clockwork Orange

29:11 Apology paralysis

33:00 Dr Kirk apologizes for editing errors

45:40 A fathers apology & differentiated systems

1:04:58 Boss' non-apology

1:05:59...

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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Ten: Your Questions, part 3)

Chapter Ten of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.


00:08 Dr Kirk apologizing regarding social justice

24:50 Difficulty apologizing

28:30 Apologizing to students

36:12 Hurtful apologies

39:30 Reasonable interpretation & refusing to apologize

51:12 Apologizing for procrastinating

58:56 Stonewalling & blame

1:...

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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Ten Intro: Kanye Apology Analysis)

Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Ten with an analysis of Kanye’s apology.


00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Ten Intro: Kanye Apology Analysis)

00:04 Kanye West's apology


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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Nine: Your Questions, part 2)

Chapter Nine of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.


00:10 Apologizing to students

08:17 An overuse of 'sorry'

11:58 Deciding on forgiveness

16:10 Psychology in Seattle emails

26:13 Hurtful apologies and caveats

36:22 Negative self-talk

42:52 Selective apologies

45:55 Unsure of an apology

56:46 Wellness checks...

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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Nine Intro: Chris Brown Analysis, part 4)

Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Nine with an analysis of Chris Brown’s apology.


00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Nine Intro: Chris Brown Analysis, part 4)

00:10 Chris Brown's apology pt. 2


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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Eight: Your Questions)

Chapter Eight of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.


00:26 Patron emails

32:27 Dr. Kirk's survey apologies

38:52 Analysis of survey-submitted apologies


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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Eight Intro: Chris Brown Analysis, part 3)

Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Seven with an analysis of Chris Brown’s apology.


00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Eight Intro: Chris Brown Analysis, part 3) 

01:06 Chris Brown's apology


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TBT from 2017

Not great, but not bad. Love this movie.

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