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From Wisdom: 365 Thoughts from Indian Masters

This feels appropriate today.

#TBT: Sri Lanka

In 2013, I went to Sri Lanka for what was supposed to be two weeks and ended up staying for two months. Of all the countries I’ve visited, Sri Lanka is probably one of my favorites; the food, the people, the Indian Ocean. I wake up every day and ask myself, “why aren’t I in Sri Lanka?” And the truth is—I don’t have a great answer lately.

I'm So Humble

Cousin Maggie and I discuss social media and it takes a turn for the hilarious. The entire conversation launches Monday available to Patrons $5 and up. 

How to Handle the Holidays Alone

For most of my upbringing, I hated the holidays. They were chaotic and stressful, one of my primary care providers was always having a meltdown and as a child of divorce, it meant usually I was on a plane Christmas Day to go see the other half of the family. 

As an adult, I came to hate the holidays for different reasons. I hated them because the holidays are like technology or social media...

Thank You, Patrons

Some of you are family, some lifelong friends; some of you are strangers who stumbled upon me on Twitter. However you came to support my endeavors and journey, even if it was only for a limited time, I wanted to take a moment as we approach this holiday devoted to giving thanks to express my profound gratitude for your backing.

As I’ve said many times before here—I have worked hard for every...

My Grandpa's Armistice Day Speech

Armistice Day -- Newport City Hall

November 11, 1963

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Today is a day of the dead; and a day of the living.

It is a day somber with mourning; and a day bright with expectant hopes.

It is a day for looking sadly back into past sorrows; and a day for peering courageously ahead to future challenges.

It is a day consecrated to the memory of those brave men who perished...

Wife Material

I’m a meat and potatoes kinda gal.

Sam and His Nail Polish

Bridget explains the internet to Maggie - Dramatic reading and rant of Sam's nail polish thread - gender norms and preparing our children for the world. 

Daily C.H.U.B

Today’s Church of the Unmade Bed comes from the restaurant I was at last night. Inspiration is everywhere.

My Terrifying First Time On National TV

“The only religion that ought to be taught is the religion of fearlessness.” –Swami Vivekananda

My phone is still on airplane mode because I can’t bear to watch myself on TV and before I turn it back on and read a single comment, or hear from my family or friends or read that I’m a Nazi shilling for the Trump administration or a white supremacist or God knows what else they’...

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Trolling online is for sissies.
Take it to the streets.

Fall in Love with the Mystery

“Worship does not mean offering flowers.
It means offering your heart
To the vast mystery
Of the universe.

It means letting your heart pulse
With the life of the universe,
Without thought and without reservation.

It means being so in love
That you are
Willing to dissolve
And be recreated in every moment.”

~from The Radiance Sutras
Insight Verses ...

There's No "There" There

"A lot of people enjoy being dead. But they are not dead, really. They’re just backing away from life. Reach out. Take a chance. Get hurt even. But play as well as you can.” ~Maude from Harold & Maude

This week I put the call out to men asking them if they’d ever friend-zoned themselves before and was met with a deluge of responses. Story after story of betray...

Late Night Reading

From “The Radiance Sutras.” — I hope you enjoy as much as I do.

Daily C.H.U.B.

Offerings: Buddhist Wisdom for Every Day by Danielle and Olivier Follmi

This is a test.

Red Toenails Tuesday

Sweat more--bitch less and hang out in C.H.U.B.

Daily C.H.U.B. (Church of the Unmade Bed)

Offerings: Buddhist Wisdom for Every Day by Danielle and Olivier Follmi

Now, more than ever, I try to heed these words. People will call me a "dirty centrist" for it and I'll get dragged for "not taking a side" or "not standing for a belief." 

For anyone wondering where I stand politically, this is where I stand: in the center of myself, trying to maintain an internal balance...

This Is the Most Glorious Message

As much as I love Twitter, (truly, I think it's great), at times I need a break and because I'm an addict--the only kind of break that really works for me is to completely deactivate my account and disappear for a while. (It's also the only way to shut down the never-ending stream of direct messages.) 

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#TBT: When I Was A Pioneer Baby

If You're Sober & Struggling Today - I Get It.

I woke up agitated, which isn’t that unusual. I’m a “sober alcoholic” which basically means I need to do like 5 things every morning before I can appear normal and even then I rarely feel normal. 

But I’ve had family in town for two weeks, which means I’ve been out of my routine of meetings and gym and writing. This is my holy trinity. If I don’t do those three things...

Citizen's Arrest: The Morality Police

Remember back in the summer of 2015 when Ashley Madison, the controversial website that facilitates affairs, was hacked and the names and personal information of millions of subscribers were released online? Ah yes…the good ol’ days.

In the hours and days following the security breach and subsequent doxing, the Internet was abuzz with tweets, Facebook posts and memes like “anyone who is a ...

Thank You, Twitter. I Owe You My Life.

I’m not one to get overly sentimental, I’m on Twitter after all and overt displays of sentimentality are generally frowned upon, mocked and dragged, but I recently hit 30,000 followers and I find myself nostalgic for my early days (and years) on Twitter when I was a waitress trying to make it in the big city as a writer and not just a writer trying to make it in the big city as a writer.

Lik...

Phetasy Weekly Roundup

It’s a sad Friday in the news cycle. Another school shooting. A plane crash. And the usual shit storm that is the current administration. Oh and Ebola is making a run for it, to name just a few things. It can feel overwhelming so I’m going to focus on the good.

One of the highlights of my week was going to listen to Jonah Goldberg give a talk about his new book, Suicide of the West<...