TTSS 12.13.23 with Andrea Lavinthal
Added 2023-12-13 05:00:04 +0000 UTCComments
I’m gonna vote for Lavs for CHOTY just because of this episode 😂😂 solidarity, mama. No mother can escape a day like this with small children 😂 that’s exactly why I don’t ever get anything done.
Catie
2023-12-18 21:26:03 +0000 UTCAlso, I completely relate to Andrea!!! I wore a strapless wedding dress against my better judgment because my TaTas are big. When I got the photos back I HATED them! My boobs were so big and the shots my photographer got made me feel like I was busting out of my dress 😕 I have been married for 11 years and I have NEVER hung a wedding photo in my house. It still hurts my heart when I think about it. Andrea on the other hand looked so beautiful! I feel so bad that she didn’t get the photo she wanted. I know how that feels. ❤️
Kelli Hornback
2023-12-15 02:50:38 +0000 UTCTay! I just listened to the episode and when Andrea’s little girl came in crying and you said “aww it’s ok, we all have bad days.” You said it in a way that was so nurturing and with so much understanding and I wanted you to know that I know you will be a fantastic mother. Just the way you said it was very sweet and very loving.
Kelli Hornback
2023-12-15 02:45:08 +0000 UTCWe understand!
Ali Walk
2023-12-14 19:14:41 +0000 UTCTaylor is really so tender with children. I hope she keeps that in mind when she’s feeling the surge of fear around parenthood - that innate tenderness is an invaluable foundation.
Meghan
2023-12-14 15:32:30 +0000 UTCI just saw the wedding pictures… I love them!!🤩💖HONESTLY!! But I do feel bad for her that she didn’t get the slit to show in pics but if you don’t know about that..they are beautiful regardless! The last pic is my fav🥰💖 Also, I’m glad she decided to skip the Xmas cards… who cares!!! If that shit is going to put you over the edge.. fuck that!! I’m very ba humbug this year too and my Xmas cards are in a pile as well… I was laughing when Andrea said that😂🥰🎄
Jill Wheeler
2023-12-14 13:17:07 +0000 UTCI was married 11 years ago and I still get so mad at myself for my look. My dress was gorgeous but not totally "me;" I very much regret how I had my hair done; and who let me do my own makeup?? It didn't look bad but it also wasn't "Wow" enough. However, the wedding itself was an absolute blast that our friends and family still talk about, so I always try to remind myself of that when these feelings come back. But the regrets are relatable, from the look of these comments it happens to all of us!!
Sarah Lake
2023-12-14 12:56:03 +0000 UTCWell said!!
Maria N
2023-12-14 02:47:36 +0000 UTCTaylor, I think you should keep your plans with your friends instead of canceling for TD’s friends. Your idea of going to the dinner without TD and TD going with her friends makes perfect sense! You did everything right in the situation and it sounded like you were excited about the plans you made. There is something to be said for going along to get along but not all the time. If you cave on things that are important to you, it winds up building resentment and that feeling you’re describing as “abuse.” That’s not going to help either of you or your relationship. Your feelings and voice matter too, so don’t ignore them, as hard as it is. Love you!
Lali
2023-12-14 02:05:58 +0000 UTCHad the best time at my wedding but could list all the things that weren’t great surrounding photos, hair, etc. At the end of the day, it is just one day (a very expensive day), but I think the enormity of it just fades with time. I have one photo from our wedding up but it’s not like it’s something we look at all the time, so who cares. It’s a feeling not a photo, but I wouldn’t have thought that even a year afterwards, it has taken time.
Michelle
2023-12-14 00:27:17 +0000 UTCPoor Vaughn! 🥺 Her cry made my heart and stomach hurt… Good decision, Andrea and Taylor - totally support the short show today. Great content with Andrea as always. ✨ Andrea, hope you had a good cry, too. 💚
Lori
2023-12-14 00:09:15 +0000 UTCVaughn for CHODY! 😂 PS. I regret not speaking up about my hair. I had extensions (WHY) and i wanted flowers for my hair. The florist brought up this weird rose that wasn’t in bloom so it stuck up from behind my head in all the pictures. I still cringe and it was 7 years ago. But our wedding was the party of the year so 🤷🏼♀️
Lauren Cappellini
2023-12-13 23:45:11 +0000 UTCI loved my wedding but my seamstress fucked up my dress. It was super chic the way the top was done and she just totally messed them up. I wanted it tighter and she refused to make it tighter and it kept falling all night. And in photos it’s bunched together bc the top was falling down. At least I’m going to have a second wedding! That’s the saving grace.
jelica
2023-12-13 22:29:33 +0000 UTCI loved my 25 person wedding and had the best time. It was relaxing and meaningful. I got my pictures back and I fell into a 12 hour depression because I thought I looked better than that. 13 years later I look at those photos and love them. I think the time right after the wedding is still so high anxiety and out of body that you don’t see it as clearly. Give it a beat and I bet you’ll feel differently after the stress wears off. Also I saw your pictures on Insta Andrea and you looked absolutely beautiful. Dress was amazing! 💕
adrienne Barnes
2023-12-13 20:14:46 +0000 UTCThat was going to be my suggestion! I had a friend who hated how she looked in her wedding pics, so she and her husband got back in their outfits and got pics outside the venue!
Kelly Clayton
2023-12-13 17:10:04 +0000 UTCCould you do an alternate photo shoot with the dress? Maybe the photographer will do it for you.
Angela Youngs
2023-12-13 16:52:01 +0000 UTCThis was the validation I needed today! Im getting married on Saturday, and i just felt like one of the sleeves wasn't sitting right on my dress. Everyone was trying to convince me that if we just adjust it when i put it on it will be fine, but this convinced me and my seamstress is fixing it today! And the seamstress agreed with me that I should fix it which is what i needed!
Kelly D
2023-12-13 16:18:22 +0000 UTCI didn’t particularly like my hair on my wedding day. It just wasn’t what I wanted. But I was so picky when selecting a hairstylist for the day of that I waited until a month before and just booked someone because I ran out of time.
Auna
2023-12-13 15:43:25 +0000 UTCThey messed up my makeup and NOBODY told me how bad it looked. Seven years later I haven't printed a single photo. This brought me right back. So much anticipation and you want it captured because it goes by so fast.
Meghan Moossavi
2023-12-13 14:50:34 +0000 UTCJustice for brides who got their pictures back and hated them! It’s such a bummer because what can you about it after the fact 🫠
Kt
2023-12-13 14:37:48 +0000 UTCI can relate to the photo regret.. I didn’t get a picture with my side of the family AND I had a beautiful reception dress and my photographer didn’t get a picture of me in it. I have like blurry pictures of me in the background with that dress. I have one of me wearing it, but my feet are cut off so it’s not a good picture 😫 Oh welllll. Honestly, it’s so hard to think of all this when you’re in the moment. You just hope that things turn out as you envision 🤷🏻♀️
Maria
2023-12-13 14:36:29 +0000 UTC
