VIRTUOUS PEDOPHILES - PODCAST #33

Here's a documentary I watched over the topic, a few years ago (10 mins in length): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k-Fx6P7d21o Personally, I wouldn't let this dude anywhere near my children

Kyla

I understand the knee jerk reaction when paedophilia is discussed. The thing is, the more we learn about paedophilia the better equipped we are to protect children from actual abuse. Paedophilia is the paraphilia/ urge/thought and it doesn't necessarily lead to child abuse, like in the case of the 'Virtuous paedophiles' mentioned in this podcast. It is also a spectrum where people can be attracted to children and adults. As long as they stick to adults and stay away from children there is no harm done. Those who are only attracted to children obviously just have to keep their fantasies as fantasies. I have a background in Psychology and work in the area of sex related therapies I have worked with paedophiles before who use various methods to stop them from abusing kids including visiting Dominatrices to beat them. There are also those who aren't paedophiles that abuse kids - The reasons can range from needing control to having developmental/psychiatric disorders. Still though the word 'Paedophile' makes us feel anger and disgust because the term is used instead of child abuser who are the people our anger should be aimed at.

lisa hutchison

rhianna i think you need therapy!!!!

Um gross, no it's not. Like, are you fucking serious? A really "soft" pedo? Someone who would rip up your ass, real serious... never mind a child. you FUCK.

I feel pedophilia is just like any other fetish in a lot of ways. They can't help it. Some people have a foot fetish, these people have a child fetish. The difference is most fetishes can be experienced by two consenting adults but in their case its illegal and immoral. I feel so bad for people with these feelings as they must get so much hate, mostly from themselves, but a lot of them are normal people who don't want to feel that way and can't help it. If people were more open minded and accepting there could be more places that can help support them not to act as pedophiles could feel more confident sharing and getting help and so would be less likely to offend.

Rhiannon moody

I agree, age ratios are relevant. I had a bf that was 10 years my jr. we were together for 9 yrs. On a separate note, he was an abusive jerk that choked me. That is another story altogether. But all to say we were both adults. Sorry you felt bullied. Nobody has the right to bully you to deleting your opinion. Wish I had seen it. I don't stand for bullying.

Sunshine

He was very clear about that. I think it's emotional for you (which totally I get it) so you need emphatic words. To someone who was never abused it read pretty clear. Not everyone who is abused ends up abusing.

Sunshine

LOL at the start I was like hmmm that sounds fishy, like the SO rehab is run by pedos. because of course they do not get rehabilitated. And then I read the ending. :)

Sunshine

Great podcast, my 2 cents it would be good when you meet the preds give them a card with support info. And a sex doll that is a child???OMG WTF? That exists>? wow gross.

Sunshine

Any adult that is trying to meet underage for sex is disturbed.

Truffles

the "face of" virped todd knickerson was a MAP. He was advocating to lower AOC laws.

Cherry Daniels

Sorry that I felt it necessary to delete all my comments because of being attacked by a certain individual, but I wanted to say what an excellent job you did on this case, and thank you for being such a caring person. There's a lot of triggering issues in your videos, and in the comment section, but that doesn't give any member the right to judge anyone, including you. Anyone who is legally deemed an adult can date or marry any other adult, no matter the age difference. My husband and I didn't need to be called names because I mentioned our 16 year age difference, because I felt it was pertinent to the subject, and you had even mentioned age difference in your video. I appreciate the way you handled the situation. You rock, Zach. Stay safe, healthy and happy. Have a great 2022!

Lorraine Pozniak

Lol I don't want to say your friend sounds cold because peds are the most least desirable people and for good reason. However holding something like that in for so long doesn't sound healthy when people try to suppress things for so long they often end up exploding and harming themselves or others. It's human nature to want to communicate and express emotion to others.

switchbladeteeth

Thank you, seriously. You have a heart of gold, protecting kids from these creeps. Stay safe!

ℬℯautifulℳℯss

Both him and my friend/dude just have these naturally masculine personalities so it makes sense to me that he does this.

Okay so the weirdest thing.. this guy has the exact personality and looks like an on/off of 8 years boyfriend of mine when he was 28. I met him when I was 18 lol. They have the same mannerisms and everything. Neither one of us are very emotional and constantly just going off and doing our own thing haha. It makes me think that the reason he (Zach/Zack?) does these because he like.. enjoys the process? Like enjoys the power behind it? I don't know how to describe it without it sounding bad but that's exactly how my boyfriend is lol. One of the only men I could find that still acts like a man with a real job these days. I can tell he watches the same things politically as us too. We're a pretty awesome and good looking couple 😉 probably will get married when we get our sh*t together lol

One more thing .... What would be more valuable to this conversation is how their abuse has a lasting impact on a child. I stuffed my abuse down for 38 years, with two serious suicide attempts, self-harm, dangerous acts, a failed marriage, and wrecked friendships. Then there are the panic attacks, flashbacks, shame, and the physical effects of having a high level of stress throughout my life. It wasn't until my third and what would have been my final suicide attempt, I thought of my kids, friends, and family and called for help. I was 50 years old, the average age for a male to hold in their abuse. I am coming up on three years of therapy and I've never been better in my life, but so much more work needs to be done. This is just part of my story, there are so many others out there... Some don't even live long enough to tell their story. That was almost me. There should be an episode talking about what lasting effects childhood abuse has on victims, and what it takes to survive. If any of those are watching and considering acting out, they should at least be more aware of thedestruction they cause.

Scott + Co.

I found this topic triggering in many ways. I'm a survivor of childhood sexual assault that went on for a year of my life. Most importantly, not everyone who has been abused as a kid acts on it. Please be more clear about that! As a father of two kids, I am overly protective of them and have educated them, from watching out for grooming to defending themselves. If these "virtuous pedophiles" find children attractive and fall in love with them. They have at least fantasized about it and how do they deny that dopamine rush? Because eventually, they will want more. What does "more" look like? Even alcoholics and drug abusers relapse. On the other hand, I hear what you say; I don't like it. I appreciate your work; I signed up for your channel because I find it cathartic to see bad guys get busted! So I usually skip all the log reading and go right to the bust.

Scott + Co.

its called being demisexual- look it up if interested!

Cherry Daniels

Zach have you seen the latest findings from Wisconsin with respect to sex offender rehabilitation? New research shows that pedophiles are actually less likely to act out their fantasies (or otherwise become recidivists) immediately after being exposed to hot lead directly to the brain and groin via a firearm.

Slow Loris

I have always been weird to the people I'm attracted to. In school I would always hear these girls say how hot boys were... Im only attracted to a guy physically after I get to know him personally one thing that I've always liked is a sense of humor and a guy that can make me laugh. AND none of them were underage! I would have crushes for years at a time. I just don't look at men as meat haha I'm weird 🤷‍♀️

Melissa lynn

there's a name for that. Your husband has perpetual 'mommy' issues and you're a creep.

Loved this podcast. I’m honestly with the “movement” and am glad there are people that have control in their sexual urges seeking help with professionals. All pedophiles should.

Yanel Adame

It’s good that an organization like this exists for pedophiles that don’t want to act upon their urges. They can’t help what they are attracted to, but can prevent acting upon it. Without this resource, it would result in more harm than good. So these people are virtuous by being candid about their attraction. Unlike MAPS that want pedophilia be identified as an LGBT+ sexuality 😵‍💫

I agree!

Zach Sweers

I believe anyone that has sexual thoughts or has any urge like that around children should immediately seek out a psychologist and therapist. Unfortunately taking it to the grave, while I agree to an extent, doesn't deal with the issue - and could just cause the problem to very possibly get worse. You're already likely not able to enjoy a normal, sexual and healthy relationship to the fullest with an adult at that point, and I think in order to live a healthy life as much as possible, getting help for the issue is the most logical answer to me. But I don't think talking about it on a podcast or starting to identify as a, "MAP" as some of them do, like it's its own normal orientation, is the right path to take. I believe pedophilia is likely undealt with trauma or mental illness. It isn't love to want to get off to a specific set of body and mind requirements that are undeveloped - aka children. It's abuse. They need to GET HELP.

Waifu