Field Report: Taiwanese Virgin

Ah yes, the proverbial virgin. The ace in the hand of all conservatives, anxiety ridden secret kings, and doomer marriage statiscians all over. Men have fought wars, pillaged cities, and castrated men just to secure virginic women throughout history and yet despite all this, thanks to technology, a little game, being at the right place at the right time, and luck I was able to meet one and take her home on a subsequent meeting.

The venue: This place was an upscale bar across the highway from an expensive private university. It’s a community of college kids with well off parents and young maybe early 30s people. The club had recently re-opened and had a speakeasy in the back. The crowd seemed to be quite diverse. All races and backgrounds but all seemed to be tight circles or aging Mexican moms looking to break the boredom of their daily lives and husbands. The DJ was quickly becoming a friend of mine as I attended all his Wednesday salsa nights in addition both of being Dominican and womanizers (almost synonymous).

Social proof was there because I know most of the regulars including women. I wore a suit (if I remember correctly) as well as being very well dressed for a salsa night (business casual) with an edge.

The girl was a young Asian girl, about 25 years old (hard to believe she was virgin but more on that later) with a big smile on her face. She was with her friends, and they all seemed very excited that men were asking them out to dance. I asked her to dance twice and had to teach her some steps, but she was having a blast which is a good sign for the women I pursue.

After that night, I got her Instagram and invited her out, but she pushed the meeting date to the right, so downgraded her and didn’t reply besides “kk let me know” or something to that effect. A couple of days later she hit me up with “I want to see you” and I set up a date to my regular spot, a wine bar.

She showed up in a black dress and looked cute. I really appreciate effort from people regardless of the situation, so I was immediately charmed. Ran my usual game and let her talk about her life. Later we walked to my place, and we got intimate.

Then I realized there were some complications during sex (I’ll spare you the details, for your sake) but I asked her halfway if she was virgin as the signs were there (unusual tightness, blood everywhere, some signs of pain in her face). I stopped and asked her if she was a virgin and if she was alright, and she giggled “Yeah”. She was giggling the whole time and almost seemed excited to “get it over with”. Crazy, right?

Lessons learned:

The biggest lesson here that I took away from this was how the media, online people, and history portrayed virgins as some innocent entity that we must protect from evil men like me when in reality a lot of them just want to get it over with.

Regardless of a girl’s sexual experience, the same things that turn on a girl when she’s a virgin or if she’s a promiscuous 30 year old remain the same. Push/pull, excitement, and dance skills all still apply. There is some calibration to be done, but that’s what game is. Calibrating your approach to the situation, the situation being a sexually inexperienced, Taiwanese girl at a fancy salsa night.

She did not become obsessed with me, or soul bonded to me as many men would be believe. She still plays game, disappears leaves me on read, and other things but ends up at my apartment from time to time. She goes on trips and parties but all in all she’s a pleasure to have around.

Protocols are the same. Don’t be fooled.

- Nuke