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P104: Dark

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jessrusso

I’m listening in reverse order, and I think I found the night of terror that’s been discussed in future casts, I’m scared to go back further as you boys have a wonderful chemistry now. Ok, 103, I’m going in.

Danthamanfowler on X

Tim Dillon knocked it out of the park with this one

Cody Hampsten

Thank you sir

D

man Jace needs to just deck Ben with. afew body shots ... overdue by like 30 years. You 2 are brothers man, don't be a pos BEN!!!

C.C.

Went there last fall and stayed right downtown and LOVED it! Beautiful and solid restaurants. Hope they clean up the homeless/mental patients just like Chicago needs to

C.C.

Correct

Sniggering

He was really lame about the firework, God forbid someone j walk in front him…

Sniggering

Appreciate you

DanielDragon

That’s a really great analogy choose the arcade character. Either way we’re still pumping in money and nothing gets done.

Payl

My goodness, boys. Ben: you treat Jace as though he cannot be vulnerable with you because you are uncomfortable with witnessing someone else's emotions, and feel as though their expression of emotion sheds a negative light on you. It does not sound as though Jace's emotions are any reflection of you and your behaviour, and simply that he must feel and express them. The inability to witness someone's vulnerability in kind means that you will forever keep them at arm's length, whether or not you think you're doing that. Jace certainly feels it and experiences it as a rejection. You two will never be able to sustain a close and intimate relationship if you cannot bridge this gap. Jace: I sympathize a lot with you with regards to the social anxiety and what happened at the end of this podcast is like the most crystalline example of it. Devan was totally right in stating you're keeping score in the relationship, and you're also expecting Ben to be a mind-reader who can somehow automatically sense when you're upset about something. Please never assume any of your loved ones can read your mind and have insider access to your tally sheet. A slight miscommunication here seems to have led to months of ruminating and resentment - and you had every bit of control in rectifying the situation at the very start. You have to communicate your needs. You are not beholden to your past and your social anxiety. It will be uncomfortable to express your needs in the moment, but it is much preferable to months of remuneration and resulting in a blow up. We all have siblings and we all know what it's like and man, is it ever not worth harbouring these sorts of resentments and resistance to connection and vulnerability. As someone who has tragically lost all of their siblings, it's sad to hear siblings building walls between each other over things that are not real. I know this is gay as hell but I paid ten whole dollars for this experience and I'm having my rant.

Kimberlite Kemmer

I am genuinely upset that nobody said JAMMERNACHT, like what the hell dude, didnt know you guys sucked so much ass

Jamie Birch

I can relate to Jace myself in many ways. Hang in there Vulnerable Kings!

Erica

True, but he delivered it like a smug cunt though.

Dershstein

Ben is a MASSIVE cuckfag. Joey rocks so hard. Clay rules.

Dershstein

I do feel for Jace but Ben absolutely cooked the last 4 minutes on the family stuff.

Friedeggrollnacat

Joey was so hammered he had Thousand Island stare for a bit.

LaFun

Ben that's your brother stop pretending you know better than him.

New Zealand Goblin aka Peggy

Great Public episode. Y’all rock

Seymour Buetts

Jacked off to this, made my tissue cry.

Sniggering

Fuck you Ben

Nifears

Just fuck each other like your daddy told you ans make up

Nifears

Fighting with your siblings is always a good time 🩷

Kylie

Imagine being gay and brothers and being gay on a podcast with your bros and brother. Dudes rock!

Jay Heinkel

Total cliffhanger!

Kyle Hill

i dont like bad feelings 😡

Phoqueboi

Ben really came clean on the livestream

T-Swzzle

bens dry drunk episode

T-Swzzle

I felt really bad for Jace at the end after all was said. Respect for putting this stuff out there. No need to thank me, but I said a prayer for you guys and your family. Maybe reading all the comments will do some more family therapy on this awesome, raw public debacle. How else is this supposed to go but only better tbh though? LP and HW are forever in this world <3<3

Noah Taylor

Wow :-O

Noah Taylor

i wonder how many months the pod has left

account gooogle

Clay was at least better this ep, just need him in tiny doses.

John O

thank you for making me laugh I'm gay

Marcel

Ben puts out some real bitchy female energy at the end of this. That version of him sucks pretty hard

Matt Kolb

is ben the bad guy? a lot of weird anti jace quotes at the end whereas jaces were just generally gay statements

account gooogle

i want to see more genuine arguing out of them it reminds me of my childhood it’s very comforting

account gooogle

Maslow’s hierarchy of Deez

Thomas Mastroianni

great ep.

ThatGuyTobias

jace is to soft, ben is just a dick

ThatGuyTobias

Jace smoked Ben in the last 10 minutes and Ben just sat there with his lips pursed like the shit eating fat faggot he is. What a fantastic program; truly.

LHM

I hate to say it, but this is the Cum Town episode where Stavros got so mad about being called fat that he walked off. The podcast is in "breakfast sandwich" territory. 18 months from now, Jace will be a "cool shoes" comedian with 400+ hours of crowd work clips on YouTube, a Netflix deal, and a movie trailer everyone is hating on. Ben will have full blown AIDS and Devan will be a Jewish woman.

T K

I love batteries.

Action Jesus

❤️❤️

Monster MW

This clusterfuck of an ep was gay as hell. Very good

Dirty Clamski

They are the best and I love the 5 of them dearly

Niko

Ouch, that hurt me, but kinda true at the end. Ben is becoming Tim, a mean fatty f*

Seymour Buetts

Fucking tits. hahaha. My brother and I as well. xD <3 love you bastards. Good ep. Devan, Pick it up kid. ;D

Starsky Dango

This made me sad.

Adam Skorupskas

People without mental health issues truly will never understand what it is like for the person who does live with them. Its nearly impossible to turn off and to just change your thinking as a suggestion is by far the doing more harm than anything. I know it comes from a good place just does not resonate with the other person involved.Compassion and patience is everything. I love you fags.

Dana Rigamortisaur

big love to Jace <3

goon time

Ben you’re being too hard on Jace. He’s gonna have this as a lifelong struggle. Doesn’t mean he won’t get better over time but it’s not just gonna go away one day. He is born with some issues that he will struggle with his whole life. You can’t dismiss that. Sorry for being gay

Ridge

oh we jammin'

Jamie Rainwater

Ben treats Jace the way Tim treated him. Sad to see what he's become.

Maarten .

I love it when Jace gets gay

Ridge

Well Joey wanted brain jail back and he got sure got it at the end.

Lucian Paul Blackbourn

Kool-Aid Jammin

Tristan Summerall

Lol that reminded me of the scene in the sopranos where Johnny sac's wife said he got cancer because of all his negative thinking.

Tristan Summerall

Yeah Jace have you tried the power of positive thinking? What great advice Ben and Devan

Jota Grande

Ben’s a bitch

Armand Ansari

Jace is a King

Teff Jiedrich

Love you guys

dadjokefan

I also live in Portland and can confirm this is 100% true. It’s not perfect but it’s nowhere near as bad as people make it out to be

Christopher Birdt

Best podcast , true vulnerability

GLMT

I fucking love this show

GLMT

Just as it got good , it ended,

GLMT

Jesus Christ he wasn't molesting me. We were running guns for the King of Cambodia

Ratsnest

Ben: buy more batteries, and cables &&&& SD cards

GLMT

Jace. Buddy. 🫂

Death By Cognitive Dissonance

Who's going Jamming this weekend?

Dairy Silver

Cringe

Normbugerking

Sweet sweet Jace

Brett Thornell

No you didn’t, stop lying Your uncle took you to a dennys and a motel 6 two towns over, your bussy wasn’t worthy of going to Cambodia

Towelieeeee

Glad you guys had a talk after this

OrionCross

Things got kind of gay at the end.

A person

You’re * And valid

Towelieeeee

You guys make my life better

Brandon

interesting ending.......

WifiMindControl

Fucking just cried boys

Ryan Austin Rosanbalm

I was the sacrificial lamb in my family. Kidnapped by my uncle for 9 months, we both ended up in a Cambodia prison. Was a hell of a 3rd grade

Ratsnest

Clay fucking SUCKS ASS! Por dios, never again, I beseech you

Brandon

Jace didnt cry? GOOD

Nathan

Ok, now I know why it was called “dark.” Jfc, that ending… Jace, we love you, Ben be nice 😂 and Devan, don’t you ever fucking change you lil rascal otter!

JustAKnobbyTire

Your a dumb bitch

ThatGuyTobias

KING JOEY WINS AGAIN

Nathan

I didn’t have that happen or my sister and it didn’t happen to any of my cousins or my friends soooooooooo We had other things but we weren’t kidnapped all our trauma came from our parents thank you very much

Towelieeeee

Kino ending

Bozo Slayer

35:00 you can feel the rage Devan has. Don't interrupt a comedian who is interrupting a fucking pleb to make a joke. You aren't the show, and cannot express to you how lame it is to just sit down and think you're at all relevant.

Georgio McFartio.

35:00 you can feel the rage Devan has. Don't interrupt a comedian who is interrupting a fucking pleb to make a joke. You aren't the show, and cannot express to you how lame it is to just sit down and think you're at all relevant.

Georgio McFartio.

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Georgio McFartio.

oh wow this ep got gay

DoughBoyD

i would pay 50$ just to have watched that whole ending convo...damn that was so real and deep and honest fuck thats the shit man...thats the good stuff!

Alexander Wilten

It’s Friday, boys!

Now Watch This Drive

HEY CLAY NOBODY GIVES A FUCK

DoughBoyD

Fuck Clay

Rob00tyFillaman

Since you guys keep bringing up Portland, I live in Portland, it still looks rough because there's a lot of petty crime and a ton of graffiti, but mostly just a lot of visible homeless and a real drug issue among the homeless. They re-established criminalization of any illegal drug and have been doing massive homeless sweeps which just shifts them around. There's likely going to be a bunch of tough on crime city council people and a mayor elected. I'll say that when I lived in Austin the homeless there were 10x more scary and mean, the homeless here are usually just completely out of it and don't bother you.

John O

Um, we're 90s kids we all had the same childhood. Either yourself or a sibling was kidnapped by an uncle. It's pretty universal. You're weird if that didn't happen to you

Ratsnest

I love clay It was also insanely funny that clay was like yeah my sister got kidnapped and nobody asked questions Like wait what

Towelieeeee

It’s never about what we say psych 101

Towelieeeee

Love ya Jace keep on keeping on

Patrick Waterston

This episode was an excellent homage to the lemon party, millennial reboot

Merfy Mac

Jace is wonderful, hilarious, and I'm glad he could open up there at the end. But if that's what therapy does to you, I will continue drinking, bottling it up, and stuffing it down to remain stonefaced and stoic like a real man lol

TheSky Guy23

6 tabs of acid and staring at a picture of Chairman Mao will cure all of yous

raulito

Joey wins again!

Geo Zawsum

If Jace gave me a few days I could cure him

raulito

Sad to see what they’ve………..

Zacharie T. Boutoille

Mental health problems are inherently illogical. That’s why they are problems retards.

Special Ed class

At what Patreon tier will these three get new friends

Brendan Kneeland

Love you guys. Thank you Jace. You've helped me alot these couple years.

Geo Zawsum

CALY is my spirt animal

Adam Way

Fuck, Joey just tried to save the ep from being a gay butthurt feelings session and actually be funny. Thwarted.

Elliot

That’ was great boys. Not dark. Just real. Love you boys!

David Eric Ricketts

Get in your whack ass studio

Illbedeadsoon

Y’all got sad and gay at the end. Very good

astral da gawd

Caring about your birthday as a man is gay

Pat

Joey wins again!

Elliot

Real ending live on 49$ brotherly love tier.

MrMike

Ok I finished the episode and you've won me back. Good shit boys

Nolan Hickling

This made me cum

Daniel

I haven't watched in a bit because life's been busy, sad to see what you've become

Nolan Hickling

I had similar fights with my brother last weekend after my whole gay wedding stuff. We hadn’t seen each other in 6 years since or mom passed. He’s more Ben and I relate more with blue Jace. Hug it out guys, ya got each other.

Seymour Buetts

Clay is my mentally challenged cousin from Alabama. We support him and are so proud of him. He’s gay but we love him.

Jay Heinkel

Way to end it gay

Seymour Buetts

Omg Ben and Jace are actually real people? Crazy

DanielDragon

Avery’s Therapy corner

TransSanitizer

Damn really wish we could’ve seen the conclusion to this one

Zarathustra69

Ben: please no more Clay. That guy absolutely SUCKS. S-U-C-K-S SUCKS. It’s wild considering how John & Joey are basically the 13th & 14th apostles / the greatest dudes ever.

Count Chugula

same. the way he was butting in on Ben and Jace's heart to heart...

Eddie Cantu

Joey was great the first half but way to fuck it up at the end buddy

Flabbergasted

Ben is 100% correct at the end.

Flabbergasted

well put good sir

DoughBoyD

Not gonna lie I hate Clay. But I love you guys!

Pixelante

Jace is the man. So is Ben. Hope they work it out

D

Hope the rest of the convo went well boys. Please don't have Hate Watch on Lemon Party again. Horrible

D

This episode was very Californian.

Frogman

Cheers to opening up, Jace! Very well played gentlemen, & very good. Enjoy your weekend boyz

r0b

john puffing a vape between two fingers like it’s a cigarette is peak closet behavior. john just come out, we love you

J n

A nice brotherly dispute to wrap up a hundred. Congrats fellas!

Big J

If Jace invites you to hibachi, don't fuck that up. Noted

Ratsnest

I commented this before watching the episode and would like to reiterate: Gay

BustCohle

Yeah and Clay has the personality of a hunk of fucking Driftwood

King Larry

It ended like one of those avangard movies trying to subvert your expectations of having a fat cock in your ass.

King Larry

funniest ep yet

SlamDunkEric

I’m so hungover. I feel like Joey

Seymour Buetts

Fun!

Seymour Buetts

Even Joey and John couldn’t handle the brotherly bickering at the end.

Russ Sibbison

Clay making a Joey Diaz reference? 💥 RedBar isn't going to like this guys

Ratsnest

Clay just did like god level instigation disguised as retarded rambling.

Javen Turner

joey represents everything i wish to be - just a homeless cat doing goofs - god bless

I. Shyr

Light Shows Darkness

Kristian Rider

I’ll wait an hour before I comment, waste of time before the inevitable “delete and re-upload”.

Russ Sibbison

I’m a candy brained retard

Lez Lemon

Gay

BustCohle

Throwaway episode, didn't even take the time to shine a blue light on jace

Michael B Schmidt

It's dark here as well. Perfect show for a power outage

Chill Cosby

clay needs to disintegrate

Walker Logan

Clay sucks ass

Pat

gayt

Alec

Yeet

JT

Dark like the inside of knaupfs asshole

Jamie Rainwater

Dark, how dark we talking? SRT or Hellcat?

Ratsnest

I’m gay

Customblow420

First

Jacob


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