Birthdays; Yours & Theirs!

Celebrating your birthday, both intimately with your family and friends, and online… Can be very beneficial for your sex work/income.

If you have a sugar parent, you can request them to purchase things off of your wishlist, work out a special package for your birthday, or this may be a chance for you to receive special spoils beyond the regular agreed upon spoils.

If you are an only fans, loyal fans, or any other spicy content site creator… you can offer rewards for anyone who sends anything off of your wish list, send anything special to your PO Box, or create an event with special rewards for your birthday. This can take place on your actual birthday, randomly throughout the month of your birthday, or the week of.

If you are a simple creator, with no spice to your content… You can do things as simple as going live for and on your birthday. Offer a link to your wish list for any of your fans who want to spoil you… or create a game for people to donate to a cause that means a lot to you.

Either way you should be capitalizing on your birthday. The more people that know about it, the better your chances of receiving a gift are.

Tips:

• Post at least a week before your actual birthday if you’re not doing anything too big.

• If you have more than a single celebration planned, I recommend you post two or more weeks before your birthday. (Simple reminder, not everybody is online every day. You want more eyes on your content).

• Have your content rewards, prepped, and ready to go before even announcing this event.

• Make sure your rewards are expelled out clearly for everyone to understand.

• Don’t hesitate to have more than one celebration. Last year I hosted a birthday bingo for a special video. If you won bingo, a raffle for a special package, and discounted PPV things like only fans! Don’t hesitate to give discounts. People will be generous around this time.

WISHLISTS:

I recommend using Amazon to create a wishlist and hiding your address for safety, or use the popular wish list site called throne. Both are safe, and full of all kinds of items. People would love to send you for your birthday.

When selecting items for your birthday, wish lists, try to stay organized. Keep the things you want the most at the top of your list… Not everyone will scroll beyond the first few rows of your list to find something unique. You may have people scroll until they find some thing affordable… So put all of your most expensive most desired items at the top of the list. Or, like on Amazon, make a few “categories”/ideas splitting up different sections of items. On my wishlist, I start with top 10 favourite picks. These specific items will normally have a bigger reward based off of how expensive they are. My second category normally has to specifically do with only fans… Or cosplay. I like to add lingerie or things I can use underneath any costume or for my dominatrix job. And third, always have a section for food and snacks. People love to feed women. I don’t get it… But I do get a lot of snacks sent to me.

Cheap followers: you will get them. We all have them… It is best to just accommodate for them. I tend to have a below $20 category on my wish list… Or even below $10. The rewards I give for this category do not have nudity in them… But might be implied, be lingerie, or sexy cosplay. I tend to add what the reward will be on each category/ideas tab… or have it laid out clearly on whatever post holds my birthday information. That way if any of your cheaper followers complain, you can point out in multiple places where you explain what they will receive for what.

Last, but not least, don’t forget to thank everyone who sends you a gift individually. On the description of your wish list… Don’t forget to instruct your followers to add their handle or name on the gift receipt message. If you open your gifts on a live broadcast, you can thank them there. Or you can send them a message with a free gift in exchange for what they sent you. This is an extra, slightly time consuming final step, that you don’t want to forget to do. A little thank you goes a long way.

Bonus Tip for Wishlists:

Would you rather have money instead of items? I have found that subscribers and fans are more likely to send items than cash. so to counteract this… In your top 10 category on your wishlist, or on your lingerie/only fans category of the wishlist… add items you have already purchased. Or things that are for sale on your wishlist site that you already own. Once you receive the gift in the mail, using the gift or receipt, you can simply return it. You keep the money or purchase something you actually want… But they still get to see you in the items that they purchased.

For their birthday: set an allotted amount of time for your subscribers to alert you of their birthday. Normally I offer about a week from their birthday till the day of their birthday, on my subscription based accounts, for them to reach out about their birthday. If they are on my account or socials that are accessible without any kind of fee… I give them the day of.

Q: How do they prove it’s their birthday?

A: I have them send a picture of them holding their ID, up next to their face. I tell them they are more than welcome to black out all the personal information except for their name, their picture, and their birthdate.

Once I have verified their birth date, I send them one of my pre-created birthday photos. If it is a subscriber on one of my subscription based accounts… they get the option to choose between a more titty version of my birthday, photo free gift, or an ass version.

When creating your birthday freebies photo set… Don’t go to crazy. These will be given out for free. Only do what you’re comfortable, giving away for free. One of my rules, for my self personally, is no pussy for free.

I tend to overshoot, and create two or three different looks, all created to advertise my birthday, and the type of freebies people will get on their birthday. creating different looks, all in the time span of one shoot… All allows you to plan for the next few years of birthday freebies. Once you have used a photo from January until December… Don’t use that photo again for birthdays. Just grab one or two from the next look, that same shoot, and start using that the following year. You don’t have to worry about taking that freebie for a while. Work smarter, not harder.

Do whatever you want for your birthday… I know I do. Just make sure that your subscribers and followers have the option to spoil you if they wish. Don’t add things to your wish list that you truly don’t want. Chances are, they’ll send you the one thing you don’t want.