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Patreon Exclusive Video: How Hugh Hefner - The Founder of Playboy Magazine - Essentially Created The Archetype of "The Financially Generous & Sexually Desperate SIMP" (aka Sugar Daddy 'Wannabes')

In this Patreon Exclusive video, Dating Coach Alan Roger Currie briefly discusses how he feels that Hugh Hefner (Founder of Playboy Magazine) essentially created the archetype of the financially generous & sexually desperate 'SIMP' (aka Sugar Daddy Wannabes)

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Patreon Exclusive Video: How Hugh Hefner - The Founder of Playboy Magazine - Essentially Created The Archetype of "The Financially Generous & Sexually Desperate SIMP" (aka Sugar Daddy 'Wannabes')

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Thanks Alan. I am pretty sure I have the 1999 Ebook version of Mode One. I will go back and re-read that portion. I need to send you a private message later on today.

I think its sad that men have been brainwashed to the point where they relate their self worth to whether or not they pay for sex. The true nature of most women is that they use their pussy for barter to get money/resources/commitment/societal validation. Sure, as women age and they see their value of their sex dwindling there may be less of this, but when they are in their prime they are always looking to come up off their pussy in some form or fashion unless you catch them on a good night. Mode 1 helps me to quickly get to the freaky girls, the girls who really like sex for sex and not only because they are getting something in return. This is the minority of women and if you don't think so you simply haven't done enough experimentation. At the end of the day I am looking for great sex full of chemistry and wild experiences and the truth is this can come from paying and it can also come from "free" sex, and the same is true about bad sex - you can pay for it or get it for free. The trick is to figure out what you're most likely to get from the girl beforehand, especially when paying. At the end of the day I'm still getting what I want (great wild casual sex) in the most efficient/direct way (being Mode 1) regardless of whether or not I pay and that has nothing to do with how I value myself as a man because I have already "validated" myself countless times in my life by obtaining "free" sex. Whether or not I pay for sex means nothing to me at this point, I'm only concerned with the end product I am receiving.

As you know Wayne, I generally agree with everything you said. In Chapter 2 of my 1999 eBook version of 'Mode One', I harshly criticize men who are willing to pay women money for a one-night stand or weekend fling. I just don't respect it at all

KG: Paying a woman for sex for "any reason" while being able to communicate with her verbally is the Ultimate Act of giving your power away which means you do not believe or support Mode One Principles as outlined by ARC. Prostitution was created by weak men to entice other weak men to pay for sex. It will ultimately destroy your self esteem in the end. Paying a woman for sex is the ultimate affirmation that you believe her body and genitals is worth far more than your body and genitals. Personally, I would rather die a slow death of loneliness which I have been doing for years than buy pussy. Simply put, I would never pay a woman for sex for any reason.

Putting Mode 1 into practice is what brought me to understand these realizations about MOST women, which I thank you for. However I understand that not all women fall into this category as you outline in your Oooo say it again book with the 5 archetypes (1 thru 5). Also I will never go back to being Mode 2 .. I'd rather pay and get what I want quickly and honestly.

I can't speak for international countries ... but I will say this again: Here in the U.S.A., I have NEVER paid a woman to have casual sex with me IF . . . 1) The woman spoke fluid American English and understood American English 2) She was was attracted to me both physically & sexually 3) My kinky erotic dirty talk TURNED HER ON and LEFT HER PUSSY WET Matter of fact, I've had women PAY ME $$-$$$ for episodes of hot, kinky phone sex (between roughly 1999 and 2016, I probably earned approximately $25,000.00 from women aged 19 - 50+ for kinky phone sex)

no I said "most women" are only fucking for another benefit besides pleasure.. re-read the original post ... also I am talking about young hot women with no kids (under 30), thats the only women I pursue for sex. There is definitely a difference.

Me neither (besides a prostitute once in Miami.. Colombian girl) ... I don't have enough experience being mode 1 in the states to say if it would be different than where I am now, maybe so since it is less "crucial" for women in the states to extract monetary value from their vaginas seeing as how there is more opportunity for women. Where I am now I'm only paying max $40-$60 (transporation included) for sex and I always make sure to test them first to see if we really have sexual chemistry. If I can see she just wants me to pop so she can leave with my money I do not buy.

You're confusing me now. Your most recent reply seems to be contradictory to your first post KG. First post: "You cannot get women to agree to engage in casual sex with you for FREE. You HAVE TO pay women to agree to engage in casual sex with you" Most recent reply: "Well ARC, I've had women THROW PUSSY AT ME (without me paying for it). Just a few months ago, I had a woman bouncing on my dick (for FREE) 5 minutes after I met her!" Don't you see the contradiction?!?

by the way I know it is not a lack of sex appeal because I have had women throw their pussy at me without doing anything at all ..a few months ago an american girl at the beach approached me, told me I was "beautiful" and was bouncing on my dick in the water 5 minutes later. I have other stories of local women doing the same thing. What I'm saying is that the large majority of women are only fucking for some other benefit besides pleasure, no matter how sexually attractive you are and no matter how good your "mouthpiece" is. Anyone who says otherwise is not being honest.

I am married now, but when I was single, I never paid a woman who spoke & understood American English for (casual) sex. The only time I have ever paid for (casual) sex was with women who either a) didn't speak American English and/or b) didn't understand or comprehend American English

I'm an American living in a developing country, and since going mode 1 I find myself paying more for sex because the truth of the matter is that most women are only having sex for some other benefit outside of pleasure, whether for money/resources or potential "serious" relationship. I've had women straight up tell me after being mode 1 that if there's no chance at being my girlfriend I have to pay them if I want sex with them. Sure you can get it for "free" if you don't tell them what you really want (casual non-monogomous sex), but you still waste much more time doing it that way. I'd still rather be a "trick" and be honest and get what I want quickly then the other way around. By the way I am a young fit sexually attractive man with charisma, personality, and game, so it has nothing to do with a lack of sex appeal. Would it be the same if I was mode 1 in the states? I'm not sure because I was never mode 1 while there, but something tells me if would be exactly the same as here.


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