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[RPO] General v2.9 Help & FAQ (Relationship & Pregnancy Overhaul Collection)
Added 2022-12-22 22:37:28 +0000 UTCHi everyone and happy December holidays to those who celebrate!
We've been getting a lot of questions over on discord etc regarding Relationship & Pregnancy Overhaul collection v2. 9: how to install, what files to keep or not, where the settings have gone, how to disable pregnancy walkstyle, how to solve common issues, etc. So, here's a quick FAQ:
---A.-- GENERAL INSTALL, FILE & SETTINGS QUESTIONS ----
Where are settings in this version?
By default, under 'actions' then 'rpo special actions'. If you turn on the very first setting in the list, the settings interaction will also appear in the main RPO gameplay menu.
How to turn off the pregnancy walkstyle?
Download the M14 'pregnancy and family tweaks' if you don't have it. Then go in settings, and un-check 'pregnancy walkstyle'.
Should I delete the old walkstyle file from previous versions?
YES
Should I delete the old 'WW compatibility fix file' from previous versions?
YES
Should I delete my settings file from previous versions?
YES if updating from V2.8 to v2.9.
NO If updating from v2.9 to v2.9+
What happens if I don't do those 3 things mentioned above?
The game will break, a little or a lot :/
Why can't my surrogates give birth at the hospital? The option is greyed out...
Because in some people's games, hospital birth breaks the surrogate system.
Is this update compatible with Turbodriver mods?
Yes. Check compatibility notes on download pages.
Is the meet&mingle dating app mod compatible with SimDa?
Yes, those mods don't see each other and don't care about each other and don't modify game code, so, they can coexist completely peacefully.
Where did the debug stuff that used to be under 'actions' go?
Turn on the first setting in the list of settings (allow debug and special actions) and you will see all that again :)
I updated and I can't find custody / permanent separations / Paternity
If you just installed the update, it'll start recognizing relationships after installation, not those before. This is a change I had to do for mod efficiency, albeit inconvenient. If you want the stuff to appear on relationships pre-existing the mod install, you can do this:
For Permanent Separation:
- go to settings under 'actions'
- turn on the first one
- click from one sim to the partner
- under 'actions' add the relationship bit 'Lumpinou_simHasRel' or sth like that.
For custody, same thing, it'll start appearing for Sims who've had children after install. For those who had kids before, you can do:
- turn on the first setting as explained above
- click on active sim
- under 'general management' then 'general debug' do 'add trait' and add 'trait_HasChild_forInteractions'.
Once again, used to be all of it would be there retroactively out of the box, but to improve mod performance as this mod is large, I had to do such changes.
-----B.-- COMMON ISSUES, LAG & THEIR SOLUTIONS ------
My game is not loading properly.
You have old files from previous versions still in. Please do a very thorough check through your Mods Folder.
SNB BILLS is throwing an error about this mod.
100% you have old files from previous versions still in. Please do a very thorough check through your Mods Folder.
I have empty text everywhere!
You still have old files in, or an old translation.
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I'm having a WEIRD LAG ISSUE issue in saves where I used to have v2.8, and NOT in new saves.
RPO v2.9 Extraordinary Lag on Saves that Had v2.8 in Previously
This problem concerns people who had v2.8 and are updating to v2.9, and happens IN OLD SAVES ONLY. It is a matter apparently of previous mod data that needs to be cleared out.
If you have abnormal lag (ie, an added lag of more than 1 second) in new and old saves both, you have another issue. Come to me to chat about it!
'Abnormal lag' would be a strong increase in menu delay compared to whatever you had under v2.8. IF YOU HAVE THIS PROBLEM, try this:
PROCEDURE #1
a- Take out ALL FILES of ALL VERSIONS of RPO, including v2.9
b- Launch a HOUSEHOLD in your save that had v2.8, play for a minute (you should observe the lag to be gone), and save the game.
c- Put v2.9 back in, properly installed.
d- Launch and see if the lag is still gone.
For many, it will be fixed at this point.
If it is NOT fixed, time for:
PROCEDURE #2 (to perform AFTER having done #1):
a- Take out m5, m8 and m10.
b- Launch a HOUSEHOLD in your save that had v2.8. At this point, you should observe the abnormal lag to be gone. Play for a minute, and save the game.
c- Put back in m5. Launch, play for a minute, and if all is still normal, as it should be, save the game.
d- At this point, you should be safe to put m10 back in. Observe that all is still fine in game, save.
e- Same for m8.
That's it! So far, either PROCEDURE #1 or PROCEDURE #1 then PROCEDURE #2 has solved this for most people who went through all the steps.
PLEASE REPORT BACK. We are still studying this issue and we need people to report back :) ESPECIALLY if those steps somehow didn't help for your case! :)
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I have WickedWhims by Turbodriver and suddenly now when my Sims do WW stuff, things freeze up and bug out.
- First, if you updated from v2.8 to v2.9 of my mod, you can try follow the two procedures listed above, to make sure that isn't interfering.
- if the above doesn't apply, or doesn't suffice to solve your issue, it's not a matter that can be fixed on my side alone, but on the WW side: you will need to update your WW with Turbo's latest fix for this in it, and it will solve it. Already available on WW's patreon version. For public version, you'll have to watch out for Turbo's next update.
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I hope this helps....
Any other questions? Please write them in comments and I will answer!
You can also go on the discord server if you can't comment.
Thanks,
Lumpinou
Comments
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Lumpinou
2025-11-20 23:39:38 +0000 UTC! download the woohoo wellness mod but the transmitted disease not working the boxes have red X inside
Chocolate Goddess
2025-11-20 21:32:27 +0000 UTCHi, the households wouldn't matter - this could have to do with the EA but of lately, are you informed on it and using the fix? (see here https://www.patreon.com/posts/133139914)
Lumpinou
2025-07-09 15:32:04 +0000 UTCHey!! I'm really loving this mod, but I'm having an interesting issue where I let my teen sim get pregnant with an accident baby, but there doesn't seem to be an option to tell her dad? When I click on her dad from her perspective, the only RPO option that comes up is Pregnancy & Family, and the only two options in there are "ask preferred baby names" (can't do that because dad doesn't know yet) and "ask if [Jay] wants grandchildren" which I did try clicking but it didn't enable any more options. I wondered if maybe it's because they're not in the same household (I put her in her own household, she's got it rough lol), but even shift-clicking to add him to her household didn't make any more options show up either. Everything else works fine though, so I'm not sure if I'm just missing something? She only just found out a few hours ago in-game.
Brie
2025-07-09 03:13:52 +0000 UTCHi, can you explain more what pop up you are talking about as I'm not sure, thanks!
Lumpinou
2025-03-08 19:34:02 +0000 UTCgood afternoon. love this mod. however, I think I am being blind. I cannot find the pop-up option to turn off for the sims to make their own decisions for storylines. Could you help me out please
Marisa
2025-03-08 18:47:11 +0000 UTCHi again, that sounds like an installation problem still - but whatever it is, we'd need some logs to tell :)
Lumpinou
2025-03-08 17:30:49 +0000 UTCI don't have difficulty installing it, I've followed it all but even now, that I'm in a relationship only four options show up It's really weird
Line Bach
2025-03-08 16:50:53 +0000 UTCAhh, thank you! I am relatively dumb with computers haha!
Annika Riley
2024-09-28 15:49:29 +0000 UTCHi, it shows you in the warning the file it doesn't like. Make sure you don't have zip files in your Mods Folder
Lumpinou
2024-09-28 15:17:15 +0000 UTCHi there! I just re-downloaded the all-files-in-one zip (I had to delete all mods because my game was broken after the Sept. 18 update) and when I restarted the game, it gave me an RPO - Warning saying I still had an old version of a file/files in my Mods folder. I opened the log it sent to the folder, but I'm having trouble finding the old file. Any help figuring this out would be super appreciated!
Annika Riley
2024-09-28 15:07:08 +0000 UTCHi, you'd need to share some logs on discord for us to diagnose the problem with your installation https://t.co/jvL4YMxWYB?amp=1
Lumpinou
2024-09-18 16:48:26 +0000 UTCPS: I've already checked the tutorial, tried all of it and nothing worked.
Soph
2024-09-18 16:40:26 +0000 UTCHi! So it's the very first time that I downloaded RPO and I checked every single thing you wrote in your post, but I still can't see the menu under "actions". E.g my teen sim is pregnant and her mom is freaked out, but if I click on menu and then I go to actions, there's absolutely nothing. If I click on a pregnant sim, then I only can see the option "Ask how's pregnancy" and that's it :(. I can customize the options if I click on the active Sim, but it doesn't seem to work as it should.
Soph
2024-09-18 16:38:56 +0000 UTCWe can help you check things up on discord
Lumpinou
2024-08-15 03:06:00 +0000 UTCTried all of it again, same problem:(
Deja
2024-08-15 02:38:45 +0000 UTCHi, sounds like an installation problem, chex' everything on the tutorial http://lumpinoumods.com/how-to-install-sims-4-mods/
Lumpinou
2024-08-15 00:12:38 +0000 UTCHi! I have an issue where I have tried all the procedures, taking out several mods but RPO just won’t pop up at all. I thought it was clashing with some other mods but I checked those and they’re fine. I have both mood pack and toolbox. Please help
Deja
2024-08-14 21:09:16 +0000 UTCThat would suggest that they already have it then and the problem is somewhere else. I can help you pinpoint it if you share some logs on the discord server
Lumpinou
2024-08-07 20:35:43 +0000 UTCHi, I thought so but I don't have the option to add 'Lumpinou_simHasRel' They're just really long ones and I'm not sure which one to add. When I try the EA divorce it works but I still have all the separation interactions is that right?
Leah Edgar
2024-08-07 18:32:40 +0000 UTCAh, I see! Then yeah you'd add the thing you mentioned from the post, or use the EA divorce
Lumpinou
2024-08-07 18:29:45 +0000 UTCHmm, they're currently married and in the temporary seperation.
Leah Edgar
2024-08-07 18:25:10 +0000 UTCHi, what's their exact relationship? If they're not official they need to use 'ask to just be friends' or whatever it's called, check under 'mean'
Lumpinou
2024-08-07 18:16:44 +0000 UTCHi, I have v.981. Im having an issue, currently the couple is temporarily separated but i cant figure out how to permenantly separate: there are no options. Which relationship bit do you add for this under this FAQ answer 'under 'actions' add the relationship bit 'Lumpinou_simHasRel' or sth like that.' ??
Leah Edgar
2024-08-07 18:13:46 +0000 UTCGood to know, thank you!
Nny11
2024-08-06 23:08:53 +0000 UTCHi, it's normal, I removed the auto schedule thing a while ago as too many people were re confused about how it worked. I'll make a new one soonish
Lumpinou
2024-08-06 22:44:23 +0000 UTCHello, I have 2.81 and I can't find a way to do scheduled/repeat visits. The only options I have are a one time 1, 2, or 3 day visit. The parents have dated on and off but never married so there was no divorce for them to go through. Finally got my guy set up for the kids to come visit regularly and realized custody wasn't set. I got that set up for mom but then when I go in to request a visit it's missing those options. I tried playing as mom to see if that made a difference but no dice. I'm I just doing something silly here or is it maybe another mod impacting this one? I noticed the screen that pops up has text layering over itself so it might not be displaying correctly. Cheers!
Nny11
2024-08-06 22:33:52 +0000 UTCHm then it's something about them but I can't guess what. If you want you can drop a sim log of them on discord, thanks
Lumpinou
2024-07-13 15:31:29 +0000 UTCIt's on all beds for just that one couple and on different lots too
Kensa Fradd-Walker
2024-07-13 15:28:08 +0000 UTCHi, that might have to do with the layout of the room / the bed
Lumpinou
2024-07-13 15:25:18 +0000 UTCHi! I have version 2.98. Most of my sim couples can try for pregnancy no problem but I have one couple who can't. As in, the option 'try for pregnancy with _' shows up for them both on beds but clicking it does nothing. Other sims, the interaction works straight away, pops into their interaction queue and they carry it out. I've checked their impregnation aspects and they look right and there is no currently running pregnancy. Any ideas please?
Kensa Fradd-Walker
2024-07-13 12:47:51 +0000 UTCHi, babies being unable to move households in general is a problem some people have and me and support people could never replicate it so it's assumed to be a mod conflict. You can move the baby via 'general management' of RPO, after aging up if need be
Lumpinou
2024-05-10 00:44:03 +0000 UTCHi! I've noticed when I have my sim as a surrogate, everything goes well until it's time to send the baby to their rightful parents. For some reason the parent comes over, but they baby doesn't end up leaving. I have the v2.98 version.
Brittany
2024-05-10 00:42:09 +0000 UTCJust to update, it wouldn’t work until I took out the most recent version of MCCC. Maybe an installation error on mccc but just in case anyone else has a similar issue
Britt
2024-03-10 11:44:33 +0000 UTCGame settings to determine if mods and scripts are on or off
Lumpinou
2024-03-10 00:09:21 +0000 UTCThank you! Sorry to ask what might be a dumb question but what game settings do I need to check? What is a file log?
Britt
2024-03-09 23:44:25 +0000 UTCHi, sure sounds like an installation problem. Please check that your game settings are correct. Then you can also make a file log to check what files are causing the problems
Lumpinou
2024-03-09 22:49:29 +0000 UTCHi, I cant access any of the RPO settings. When i clock global settings, nothing loads. I also cant see any RPO opetions if i go through 'actions'. Have uninstalled and reinstalled the mod and updated all my others.
Britt
2024-03-09 22:30:14 +0000 UTCHey hun, my child's sim was at the dad's house before I saved and closed out my game and I just signed on to play, and the child is not there. It's not at Mom and dads house and on the family tree. Under the sims profile, it says the dad has custody. Is there something I should do to avoid this again?
Sonotemo
2023-05-27 07:46:18 +0000 UTCIf you mean from 2.8 to 2.9 - that transition can affect fertility data. You can either reassign based on cas in fertility menu of the mod or save without the mod installed and put it back in to reset all of its data on all Sims (loses all mod data though)
Lumpinou
2023-03-15 19:34:58 +0000 UTCHi, I have a question regarding an issue I've been having with the fertility rate. Before the most recent update under the menu for reproductive health I was able to manually change a sims fertility rate. Since then on all of my sims it hasn't been an option. The rest of the mod has been running perfectly and It's the only issue I've had.
jzms
2023-03-15 19:27:56 +0000 UTCi think i know what i did i deleted eveything from the folder i had the mod in and juss replaced it but i never had that issue i cant find the general setting ur talkin about
alexia smith
2023-02-02 03:52:48 +0000 UTCHi, if you don't use anything from my m2 you can absolutely delete that package yes
Lumpinou
2023-01-25 15:44:29 +0000 UTCI’m so sorry if you already mentioned this somewhere. I just found the wonderful whims menstrual cycle model. I just want to know, can I delete that part in your mod and use their mod or should I just add their mod to my game? I don’t need to use it, but it just look like it was a little more in depth when it came to menstrual cycles.
Sonotemo
2023-01-25 06:18:41 +0000 UTCIt's on the parent, in their menu. They'll have a custody menu there
Lumpinou
2023-01-19 19:57:18 +0000 UTCso how do you send the kids with their dad? I see relationships and pregnancies but it just says "ask if they want siblings"
Patrice M
2023-01-19 19:11:35 +0000 UTCEdit: Okay, I figured out that I needed to reenable the RPO Collection - Special Actions debug menu!
shreditdude
2023-01-18 08:09:52 +0000 UTCHiya Lumpinou! Hey, I recall that in v2.8, it was possible to select another Sim for the active Sim and set a "Set as recently WooHooed (without protection)" flag, but I can't seem to find that option any longer. I liked using this along with WW in the previous version, since it would allow my Sim to go and get an emergency contraceptive pill after WW's version of Woohoo. Are the emergency contraceptive pills still available in v2.9? I suppose this leads to another question as well: are Sims who do stuff with WW without protection supposed to be recognized by RPO? Because I've noticed that first-time-woohooing Sims don't register their partner with the relbit for "First WooHoo Partner" with the Memory System module, but then again, they do register them in the "Had Woohoo" Life Milestones menu. I'll mention that I have WW's "Override Game/Mods Pregancy" option turned OFF and I'm only using RPO's system. Anyway, sorry for my long questions. I absolutely love your mods and all of your hard work! Thank you for all you do for the Sims' community ^,^
shreditdude
2023-01-18 07:59:21 +0000 UTCMarion, please check the FAQ for the answer to your question, here https://www.patreon.com/posts/76258385 Elizabeth, how old are the Sims? When did you last download, too?
Lumpinou
2023-01-16 01:47:17 +0000 UTCI am having the same issues, also noticed that the father can no longer ask for a dna test to make sure it is his/
Marion Powell
2023-01-16 01:40:16 +0000 UTCFor whatever reason after woohoo or trying the option to take pregnancy test doesn't pop up
Elizabeth D.
2023-01-15 21:31:14 +0000 UTCNo worries, it's a common mistake! And thanks 🙏
Lumpinou
2023-01-14 22:50:25 +0000 UTCOhh well I’m an idiot lol I just wanna take the time to tell you how much I love your mods
Alexus Alejandro - Clark
2023-01-14 22:20:47 +0000 UTCHi! Realistic birth is Pandasama's mod
Lumpinou
2023-01-14 22:08:56 +0000 UTCSo, I can't find the option to have a realistic birth in my phone. What should I do?
Alexus Alejandro - Clark
2023-01-14 20:44:35 +0000 UTCHi, missing text is always due to one of two things, old files hiding somewhere in, or outdated translations. Can you take ut everything that's in your Mods Folder and put it somewhere else on your computer, then put rpo alone in your empty mods folder and check the text again? This to confirm
Lumpinou
2023-01-13 17:45:18 +0000 UTCHi! I am still having issues where I am getting a menu or pop up with no text. I made sure there were no duplicates mods in the folder but it still deleted everything and installed v2.9 again and I am still having the same issue, it was working fine with v2.8. I also have the latest WW installed.
Andrea Myers
2023-01-13 16:58:13 +0000 UTCTake your time! Thanks for getting back to me so fast. I love this mod and I appreciate everything you do.
Tai Storey
2023-01-10 00:41:04 +0000 UTCI still have to fix it up for cas couples probably, too. Constantly updating until everything is perfect 😅
Lumpinou
2023-01-09 23:36:15 +0000 UTCAh I see. Thank you so much!! That explains what happened. They were married in CAS before I updated.
Tai Storey
2023-01-09 23:27:06 +0000 UTCIt's because how the mod loads stuff up on Sims has changed, so, relationships pre existing the update won't be recognized for this. You can manually re enable it if you want, check info in the FAQ for that https://www.patreon.com/posts/76258385
Lumpinou
2023-01-09 22:19:49 +0000 UTCI'm having an issue which might just be a mistake on my end. My married Sims want to break up. I only have an option for temporary separation. I can't seem to split them up through the mod anymore. I'm wondering if it's because he has other relationships.
Tai Storey
2023-01-09 22:13:06 +0000 UTCHi, sounds like an installation problem. The usual things to check: 0. Is your **game up to date**? *My mods work properly only on the Most Recent versions of the game.* 1. Are all .package and / or .TS4SCRIPT files for this mod **extracted from archive files?** *(no .zip or .rar in mods folder)* 2. Are all files **directly in the mods folder OR in one subfolder** in it, but no deeper? 3. Are **cc mods AND script mods both enabled** in game settings? (must check BOTH) - *in game, in options, under 'other settings'* 4. Do you have only **ONE version** of the mod installed at a time and is that version compatible with your game version?
Lumpinou
2023-01-07 13:23:48 +0000 UTCMy mod isn't showing up at all, even after reinstalling.
Fancy
2023-01-07 04:40:08 +0000 UTCGlad to hear things got better!!! Thanks for informing me!!
Lumpinou
2023-01-06 22:44:24 +0000 UTCNot sure if you remember but I asked before about fixing the lag when I accidentally updated without removing all previous files and had good 7 seconds lag on sims. I listened and took out my mods, added them bit by bit over around a week and finally added the woohoo wellness one. It did slow down the interaction menu again to around 3.5 seconds but it was playable. Updated today to the newest changes and followed the step again outlined here of removing it, saving, playing few mins and adding the mod and somehow the lag now decreased to only around 2 seconds when clicking on sims so I'm very happy now with whatever happened 😄
Marlena K
2023-01-06 22:39:55 +0000 UTCIt is a previous save and it seems like it has gone back to the normal amount of lag with previous versions
Amaya
2023-01-05 16:10:02 +0000 UTCHi, an important thing to know is also: in a new save, is it the same, or is it back to whatever was the normal amount of lag experienced with previous versions?
Lumpinou
2023-01-03 19:52:24 +0000 UTCHello Lumpinou! Love your mods! I'm having trouble with this latest update. The pie menu lags a lot when clicking on Sims. I followed both procedures listed here and neither worked for me. Not having the mod worked but I REALLY like this mod and would prefer to have it in my game. Removing modules 5,8, and 10 lessens the lag but it is still there. For now, I am just playing without those modules since I can tolerate that lag. The pie menu on objects/non-Sims works perfectly fine. Thank you!
Amaya
2023-01-03 19:35:56 +0000 UTCAt some point she must have given birth as a surrogate in a manner that didn't let the game clear out things the way instructed (at the hospital for example). If this happens you just have to clear markers under 'pregnancy and family' then status. If you don't see the clear markers interaction in there, first turn on the first setting of this mod's settings.
Lumpinou
2023-01-02 16:50:29 +0000 UTCHello, when using the Surrogate system, do you know if something must be cleared on the Sim manually before opting for artificial insemination with the intention to keep the child? My sim carried a baby for another but then wanted to have her own. She de-registered from the surrogate agency and then went for artificial insemination but will only get the surrogate pregnancy mood buffs.
5andfordV
2023-01-02 16:45:05 +0000 UTCExactly! On top of my note telling them to update above, I told them that specific info in a comment yesterday, that appears below all these for some reason :) But for an 'always true' general note to all: It's important to keep up to date on everything especially between Adeepindigo and me, Pandasama and me and Turbodriver and me as there are regularly things that we do to keep out mods compatible and / or integrated
Lumpinou
2023-01-02 16:36:08 +0000 UTCWe had to change something about how we do compatibility so I had to reupdate Sim Image. 1.4.2 should not cause the double interactions.
Danielle
2023-01-02 16:34:46 +0000 UTCI just downloaded the new SimImage-Just an FYI ❤
Jami Lyford
2023-01-02 12:59:09 +0000 UTCHello, do you know where I can find the translation in Spanish? I love your job ❤
KiyoSims
2023-01-02 12:12:31 +0000 UTCHello, i have the same problem with M10 and M8 and I did all the steps… thank you for all your mods ! You are so talented !
M
2023-01-02 02:21:58 +0000 UTCOkay it seems like without the Self-Image mod everything is back to normal!
Brayden Sutherland
2023-01-01 21:36:37 +0000 UTCI don't know if she updated it yet, but eventually she will and it will stop the duplicates. It's because of our mod integration and the fact that we made some changes, so that's that. Definitely look on other sims for the romance thing as that should be instructive, and let m know!
Lumpinou
2023-01-01 21:05:44 +0000 UTCThanks for the quick response! I dont have any surrogate sims, but I will try to redownload self-image and see if that helps at all. I didnt know there was already an update for it! My sims are compatible orientation wise. I havent tested it on any other sims but I can go try real quick and report back!
Brayden Sutherland
2023-01-01 21:04:42 +0000 UTCDoubles would have happened at some point if you have either a surrogate sim (which I fixed at some point), or if you didn't update adeepindigo's simImage mod if you have that, but updated mine. They aren't anything concerning either way :) For the rest, have you tried with several Sims, and did you make sure they are compatible orientations wise?
Lumpinou
2023-01-01 20:54:58 +0000 UTCIm having really big issues with this mod for some reason :( I keep getting double interactions under the pie menus. For example, it'll say "go to birth class" twice under pregnancy pie menu. There are several of them like that. I also cannot seem to get more than like 3 interactions even though my sims both have 100/100 romance and friendship. Its like all of my options for dialogue have just disappeared. I tried all of the steps above but nothings working.
Brayden Sutherland
2023-01-01 20:53:12 +0000 UTCThis mod doesn't remove romance unless between an npc surrogate and others, between related Sims and between Sims who chose not to be romantic with each other. The game will remove stuff if Sims aren't compatible orientations wise. Best thing to do is to check with various Sims and also check without other mods. And if in all cases it happens, then I'd ask more info to troubleshoot :)
Lumpinou
2023-01-01 02:35:55 +0000 UTCI have also noticed that I have very few romance options now. The only ones showing up were woohoo, offer massage and ask about romance/woohoo preferences and serenade
Breanna Blackwell
2023-01-01 02:33:52 +0000 UTCNormally saving without them should clear up their data and fix it, or at least saving with nothing in... Because people with these cases are fine in New saves. Not sure what's going on with all that.
Lumpinou
2023-01-01 01:12:29 +0000 UTCM10 did the same thing. I much more notice lag, even without M8
Breanna Blackwell
2023-01-01 00:44:22 +0000 UTCOK, very strange but informative, I will investigate, thanks!
Lumpinou
2023-01-01 00:36:35 +0000 UTCYeah, I did all the steps in procedures one and two, and upon adding M8 back in the lag was much more noticeable
Breanna Blackwell
2023-01-01 00:12:51 +0000 UTCI assume you did the steps and removals etc and put everything back in and it was fine and then got to that one and it wasn't?
Lumpinou
2022-12-31 23:58:50 +0000 UTCM8 seems to be the culprit of my lag
Breanna Blackwell
2022-12-31 23:58:08 +0000 UTCPerfect thank you !
Brittany Charles
2022-12-31 03:34:21 +0000 UTCHi, What isn't working for you exactly? What are you trying to do?
Lumpinou
2022-12-31 03:31:19 +0000 UTCYou can set it to 100, that's fine. For r impregnators it goes from 0 to 5. You can also use a global rate instead of individual if you want.
Lumpinou
2022-12-31 03:30:55 +0000 UTCThe potions dont do *that* much, but im glad its working now!
YellowOrange 312
2022-12-31 03:16:10 +0000 UTCI downloaded the updated mod and she got pregnant first try but before she would drink potions and all lol so I'm guessing it was the mod itself
Brittany Charles
2022-12-31 03:15:23 +0000 UTCSorry, im not sure where your reply went, but I saw it in my email. The mod has a max at 6 for that setting, and how many times has she woohooed? sometimes it can take a decent amount before they get pregnant because, say youre flipping a coin. Yes its a 50/50 chance to get heads or tails, but you could get heads a dozen times in a row before you finally get tails
YellowOrange 312
2022-12-31 02:58:45 +0000 UTCI've set it to 100 using the family pregnancy selection but I've updated a few mods so I hope this helps
Brittany Charles
2022-12-31 02:47:20 +0000 UTCthe custody mod isnt working
Marissa Posada
2022-12-31 02:31:34 +0000 UTCyou cant change it to 100% with the mod, the highest I believe is about 35% which is insanely high in real life. If she was infertile, remove the trait and reroll fertility based on cas values, or set fertility to 6 (the highest setting, its not percent based) Also, did you set it to 100 through a different mod?
YellowOrange 312
2022-12-31 02:31:11 +0000 UTCHi I am playing the 100 baby challenge and my Sim starts off infertility. When I change it to 100 she still cannot get pregnant. Am I doing something wrong ?
Brittany Charles
2022-12-31 01:54:21 +0000 UTCIt gave the mother the moodlet and gave me the notification, but the baby disappeared and I had to go to manage worlds then come back. Once the kid was a toddler it didnt cause any issues
YellowOrange 312
2022-12-31 01:42:59 +0000 UTCThat should not be a problem as far as I remember
Lumpinou
2022-12-31 01:41:36 +0000 UTCIm trying to have my sim give her baby to her adult daughter, but they live in the same household, does this not work?
YellowOrange 312
2022-12-30 23:39:02 +0000 UTCHi, and thanks! There are no conflicts between my mod and Pandasama's. Can you try in another household with another sim? And also without other mods installed, just mine and panda's?
Lumpinou
2022-12-29 14:06:59 +0000 UTCHi Lumpinou! I wanted to say that your work is amazing and I am grateful for it! I just have one question- I downloaded the RPO collection recently, but whenever my sim goes in labor, she cannot give home birth or call the midwife, even though she can go to all the appt. whenever it comes up. Any suggestions as to why this is happening?
Ruth K
2022-12-29 06:15:23 +0000 UTCHi, a bit strange I would say! what's her fertility? And the guy's? Do you have the teen module or not? And when did you last download? Also no the mod doesn't allow to have more Sims per household than default..... Wonder if I messed up somewhere and it doesn't block pregnancy for full households though, I'll have to Check that up
Lumpinou
2022-12-28 03:09:46 +0000 UTCi dont use mccommand or whatever it is called, but my teen has had 3 babies so far and my house has 8 in the house, and i just looked and shes having her 4th baby! with a maxed house, and she has all 3 sharing time at her house and there dads.is this a glich or did we get an upgrade house man with your new update?
Raelyn Huschle
2022-12-28 03:06:59 +0000 UTCHello, would you consider adding an interaction between sim partners that is something like "Discuss having a baby"? in an update in the future? The accepting unwanted pregnancies gameplay is amazing, but I would love it if my sims could actually talk about having a baby first, and then the pregnancy preference changes. thank you for all of your hard work.
TheOne
2022-12-27 21:03:54 +0000 UTCa small hiccup, when finding out the gender of your baby it doesn't show it anymore. Hey Lumpinou, merry Christmas belatedly.
kesionna
2022-12-27 09:29:25 +0000 UTCHi there! I hope you had a restful holiday! Playing today I had some ideas - when you lie to one partner that the baby is theirs, and then also tell the real father, it might be fun to have a social menu for telling them that they're off the hook for raising the kid. Or telling them that you told someone else they were the parent. A few more interactions to do with lying to the original partner would be fun too, especially when you aren't controlling the other Sims. Thank you for all you do!
SamWisez
2022-12-26 22:15:26 +0000 UTCHi, when did you last download, and do you have only this module and core or also more things?
Lumpinou
2022-12-26 21:51:18 +0000 UTCHello, I have the teen pregnancy module installed, but my teens aren't getting pregnant and I don't even have the option to do pregnancy test. Also did the test fertility button go away?
mommyshark
2022-12-26 19:09:57 +0000 UTCHi! My mod doesn't add those traits - maybe another mod you got recently? As for delay, best thing to do about that to know what type of thing is going on, is to test it in a new save and see if it's the same there as in the old save. Also, see troubleshooting info in post above. Thanks!
Lumpinou
2022-12-25 23:03:12 +0000 UTCHello! I've noticed significant delays in the social menu popping up. Especially when my sims are visiting a location away from the home lot. Also, the traits have been odd as well. They all got bonus traits that are usually only unlocked based off the aspiration you picked, only the additional trait did not align with their aspiration. IE: A sim with the big family aspiration had both the domestic trait and quick learner trait.
Leah L
2022-12-25 21:50:29 +0000 UTCThat's because slice of life overrides and renames the action menu, an arguably poor and confusing decision haha. Glad you found it
Lumpinou
2022-12-25 21:13:14 +0000 UTCnevermind! I realized that option is under the slice of life option :)
Caroline E.
2022-12-25 20:40:46 +0000 UTCwould the mod stop the actions section from popping up entirely when I click on a sim?
Caroline E.
2022-12-25 20:39:39 +0000 UTCIf you have installed properly, you will see the setting option under actions. If not, it's not installed properly :)
Lumpinou
2022-12-25 20:14:52 +0000 UTCHi! for some reason there isn't a settings option showing up so I can use the action option--where should I look for it?
Caroline E.
2022-12-25 20:09:41 +0000 UTCBy changing visibility. If you don't have access to that interaction, re-download core library and dating app :) And idk about the computer at this moment, maybe maybe not, but you can sell it to me a little haha - if it's to be the exact same thing, what is the appeal?
Lumpinou
2022-12-25 04:41:37 +0000 UTCOne more question, well two lol will you make the dating app available on the computer? And how do you make the profiles visible?
Brandmuffin89
2022-12-25 04:32:28 +0000 UTCGlad it's figured out!
Lumpinou
2022-12-25 04:28:10 +0000 UTCI found out is was my BDP mods from WW all I had to do was start a new save because the save file contained a older version of the mod
Brandmuffin89
2022-12-25 04:26:34 +0000 UTCNo - all my mods are perfectly compatible with each other. And they don't cause the type of problems that you are having, either :)
Lumpinou
2022-12-24 23:06:06 +0000 UTCThe memory mod doesn’t affect the pregnancy overhaul mod, does it?
Brandmuffin89
2022-12-24 23:05:28 +0000 UTCSounds like you probably have old files and new files of various mods together or some sort of similar problem. I would suggest going to mccc discord support server, they can do general help
Lumpinou
2022-12-24 23:04:54 +0000 UTCMods
Brandmuffin89
2022-12-24 22:59:58 +0000 UTCI saved a game and made us a file with some of the old mods in it, and I feel like because I keep updating the moth when I put myself out and it doesn’t play correctly
Brandmuffin89
2022-12-24 22:59:45 +0000 UTCYou either have outdated UI mods or impropriety installed mods, would be my guess
Lumpinou
2022-12-24 22:57:34 +0000 UTCmy UI will not show skills, relationships, groups etc and sometimes i am unable to click objects...help please
Brandmuffin89
2022-12-24 22:53:14 +0000 UTCHi, details please! What fertility setting are you using? Did you adjust WW settings properly to work with this mod? Which mod is in control of pregnancy? What age is the sim? :)
Lumpinou
2022-12-24 15:58:39 +0000 UTCFor some reason my sim isn't getting pregnant at all. I had to use MC Command Center to get her pregnant. Regular woohoo and wicked woohoo aren't working.
Olivia
2022-12-24 15:27:53 +0000 UTCIf you mean info directly on the Sims - of course, just don't save without any version installed - and the data stays. Switch out the files and that's it! If youean the global settings file - if you are coming from v2. 8, That one must be deleted. It just saves global settings, nothing about the Sims is in it and nothing about the Sims will be lost
Lumpinou
2022-12-23 19:33:00 +0000 UTCHi! Is there a way to keep old settings or memories from old versions of the mod when installing the new version?
casualgoth
2022-12-23 19:24:00 +0000 UTChmm, ok, the ways of interactions are unfathomable. Of course, this makes the game unpredictable... and very interesting. This is where the Black Widow Challenge takes on a whole new twist: when you first have to get rid of your lover's wife before you take the man for your husband and kill him too. I'll have to see, there was a mod somewhere that allowed you to get poison... and then my sims wife's lover's wife is invited to dinner, hehe
Beate Lehmann
2022-12-23 12:59:46 +0000 UTCOK, this is a game interaction and a mod one so I don't really know!
Lumpinou
2022-12-23 12:05:01 +0000 UTCyes, exactly. Then came the message that the married man wanted to separate from his wife in the evening, but didn't do it. And since then, the option to ask him to leave his wife has not been available
Beate Lehmann
2022-12-23 10:03:29 +0000 UTCShorter in new save, yes. I did a Save As on my old game, thinking it might help but didn't. Let me know if there's anything else you would like me to test!
Jo Cara
2022-12-23 05:12:11 +0000 UTCHi, do you mean the game interaction, as in, your sim is sleeping with a married one, and asks that married one to leave his spouse?
Lumpinou
2022-12-23 02:07:51 +0000 UTCHi Lumpy, I love this mod revamp. And I was very surprised when my sims wife asked a married sim husband to break up with his wife... and he just said he would do it that evening. He didn't do it and unfortunately the option after separation no longer appears. Of course, as a lover in real life, you are also stalled. But I'm wondering if this option isn't there anymore? Should my sims wife now completely let go of the married sim husband or can she ask again after a few days in the hope that he will then agree?
Beate Lehmann
2022-12-23 02:01:04 +0000 UTCHi, setting files for this mod get created in the same folder as the core script file for it. So, if you have an old setting, it would be where your script file for this mod was during the previous version :)
Lumpinou
2022-12-23 00:35:04 +0000 UTCWhere do I locate the setting file to make sure I removed everything from the previous versions?
Harley Quinn
2022-12-23 00:23:19 +0000 UTCHi, try on a New save and let me know if the delay is same or shorter please? This would be very important info :)
Lumpinou
2022-12-22 23:24:20 +0000 UTCI really love the re organizing of menus. Everything is so accessible! One thing, though: when i click on a sim, there's significant delay for the menu to pop up. Menu for objects works fine, just sims. Any ideas what could be causing the delay? I only use two script mods; yours and Turbo's. Once I take out RPO, no delay. Dont use UI mods either. Thank you so much for your work!
Jo Cara
2022-12-22 23:19:38 +0000 UTCLooking forward to playing with mix and mingle! With HS Years my last two gens had no trouble meeting someone at school and next gen has to marry a co-worker, but one of these days 🙂...
Simslegacy5083
2022-12-22 22:51:06 +0000 UTCYeha I fixed that yesterday, I had simply completely forgotten to check for the presence of the teen module, I had a note in the script where I wanted to put it but for free testing I wanted to do that very last - and of course I forgot haha. Sorry again about it! It's difficult to keep track of everything. But on the plus side, a re-download means you'll have the latest Meet&mingle, which has a few more filters and such compared to two days ago
Lumpinou
2022-12-22 22:48:19 +0000 UTCOh so glad I read this - if I had gotten a 3rd surprise teen pregnancy I would have been pulling my hair out 🤭! Thanks for the quick fixes!
Simslegacy5083
2022-12-22 22:45:57 +0000 UTC
